There are words you should not be using, and it is a “should” in inverted comments for those people who study in language. If you take out of your language will help you achieve success whatever that is for you, whether it’s abundance, or growth. By just taking out a couple of words in your language, will help you massively.

First: “CAN’T” 

People going “I can’t do that.”

“I can’t do that because I’m too old” (there’s usually a cost with it).
“I can’t do that because I’m too old, you know technology.”
“I can’t do that because I don’t have enough money.”

I can’t! I can’t! I can’t! I can’t!

We focus on the things that we can’t do, and we’ve seen this with the pandemic. A lot of people focusing on what they can’t do, rather than what they can do during this pandemic. Change that up and if you feel that you’re saying, “I can’t,” then change it up to “What can I do?” instead.

Second: “DON’T” 

“I don’t do it that way.”
“I don’t want to do it that way.” 
“I don’t have the money to do it.”
“I don’t have the resources.” 
“I don’t have the support.”

This don’t in that language will force you to be in a stuck state. It’s not a word that helps you build momentum forward, and when you’re wanting to grow massively, and change the outcomes to you, then take out the word “don’t.” So really check in to see if that’s in your language.

Third: “TRY”

I hear people saying…

“I’m trying to get clients.”
“I’m trying to do social media.”
“I’m trying to do the things that I should be doing.” 

Try is not a doing word, so either you do, or you don’t. When you hear yourself say “I’m trying,” then make the decision “Am I doing or am I not doing?” and then get really clear with yourself because if you’re trying that errs on the side of do not do.

You’ll hear people go, “I’ll try and make it,” when you invite them to a party or a function. They’re not going to make it. If you’re using the word “TRY” take it out and make the decision “Am I doing it or am I not doing it?” and then you will have the opportunity to move forward when you’re in a doing state.

“Can’t,” “Don’t,” and “Try” always force you into a stuck state and not a moving forward state, so give it a go, check in with these three words, write them down, and then see if you’re using them in your language, and then take them out, and see how things change around you.

It’s Time to Take Massive Action!

It might take a little bit of practice, but do it, make the choice, don’t try to do it, do it! Take them out! And really acknowledge how things are different in your life.

If you want to learn more about growing your business to the next level, I’d love to invite you to my Grow Your Speaking Biz Workshop. It’s my annual event, where I will share all the ways to design your content, what to put in, and what to take out.

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